Sunday, September 25, 2011

The Church?

Hello faithful readers.  Been a long time I know.  Don't worry, I've still be thinking, but haven't taken the time to write (and honestly have been too busy). 
   So I have a few questions that hit me last Sunday which I'd like to ponder on a bit: 

What is church?
What is the church?
What is it for?
What does it do?
For who?  poor, downtrodden, oppressed
How does it work?

Lots of questions.  Big questions.  Let's see what I think...

I guess I define the church as the people who believe in God/Jesus and have God's priority and perspective on every aspect of life on earth.  And I believe that priority/perspective is to show love and acceptance and grace to all, to be free from the love of money and worldly success so that we can be focused on loving supportive accepting relationships. 

So church = people.  I'm reminded of an old camp song...  "We are the church, the body of our Lord, we are all God's children and we have been restored."  Another line says "we're called enlightened sanctified for the work of Jesus Christ".  Sure there's some churchy words there, but I think you get the point. 

OK so church = people and people = lives and lives = time and relationship and community.  Yep. 

So from the foundation above, what is Sunday morning church?  What are small groups, bible studies, and house churches?  What are mission trips, fishing trips and vacations?  I'd say they are examples or facets of the church described above.  Long story short the groups and events I bring up are part of community which can include (but not be limited to...)...
  • fellowship (Christian word for chit chat)
  • teaching, a sermon, a Bible study, learning, growing
  • singing songs, reading scripture
  • service or outreach to the poor, the widows, the orphans, etc.
  • encouragement and support
  • challenging one another (as iron sharpens iron)
  • resting together (going fishing, watching football, vacation, etc.)
So How does it work?  This I think is very important.  Of the utmost importance because there are many out there that for good reason would say that the church doesn't work or isn't working. 

I think of Jared Allen (of the Vikings) and how he "makes it work".  He's a person and he makes it work...
  • he wants it
  • he encourages others (pumps them up)
  • he's encouraged and challenged by others (other players and coaches)
  • he's an athlete that is physically fit (and keeps on it) and is always thinking of what he can do to win win win.  
  • You can see that he doesn't do it alone (he's part of a team).  

So let's apply this to church = people and the way that this "works" is if people...
1) WANT IT:  To want to apply God's priorities to every aspect of our lives, time, money, resources, relationships, how we treat others, how we think about others, etc. 
2) ENCOURAGE:  Through your community and relationships, listen, understand, love and encourage others.  Be practical in your help (lend a real hand when asked or even better yet, without being asked). 
3) BE ENCOURAGED / CHALLENGED:  Through your community, find opportunities where you can be stretched and challenged to grow and be all that you can be.  Find a few key running partners that will challenge you to want it, keep wanting it and be more effective in doing it. 
4) ALWAYS BE THINKING /STRATEGIZING how you can be more effective and creative in how you live out your call. 
5) DON'T DO IT ALONE.  I repeat this to emphasize that in community through relationships is the most effective way to truly "love one another". 

I'm sure I've left some things out.  Could always expand from here, but this seems like a nice stopping point for now.  Let me know what you think or what I missed. 

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Commentary on Gospel of John

If you are not interested, skip this posting.
I'm reading through The Gospel of John with an accountability group and thought I'd scribble my ponderings here in case anyone is interested. 

It's one week till Easter so, very appropriate to read Jesus' story although I probably won't get to the Easter part until after Easter.  Oh well.  I plan to read one chapter a day.  Here we go:

John Chapter 1:
     WOW, so much in this single chapter!  It starts with the high level plan of God (vs 1-18):  He created all things.  In Him is true life which He gives to everyone.  He is light to shine in the darkness.  He will not be over come.  He gives us the right to become children of God (v12).  God's unfailing love and faithfulness came through Jesus Christ (v17).  WOW!  This is it, God's plan.  A good reminder (I'm ashamed to need one) and a great foundation for the story of Christ that we are about to read.
     Vs 19-34 tell the story of how John the Baptist prepared the way for Jesus and ends with Jesus being baptized by John.
     Vs 35-end, the start of Jesus ministry.  A couple of interesting things...  In V42 Jesus re-names Simon to be Peter.  Not gonna lie, that's a little weird don't you think?  Not sure if there's some deep spiritual truth here, but if there is, I'd say it's about how we can be new creations in Christ, the old gone and the new has come (see II Cor 5:17) which is part of God's plan.
     Next Jesus asks Philip to be His disciple.  Philip is a little skeptical and Jesus nonchalantly mentions seeing him under the fig tree.  This really impressed Philip that Jesus could know where he was and all about him.  Jesus replied, "if you are impressed by that, stick around and you will see MUCH more impressive things" which is a great intro to the book.  Stay tuned and you will see MUCH more impressive things that Jesus being omnipresent?!  I don't want to skip over the fact that Jesus is omnipresent, in all places at all times.  He sees all and knows all.  I think it's important to know and realize this attribute of God/Jesus as we read this book, as we go through life, etc.  If we want to know God, we should know about Him and how He works.  Good stuff, really good stuff.

John Chapter 2:
     We have two main items in Ch 2:  water to wine and clearing the temple.
     Water to wine:  So this was Jesus' first miracle.  It happened at a wedding celebration.  Why we ask did Jesus choose to do this?  There are many possible answers, but the most obvious one is that His mom strongly suggested that He do something.  The Bible does say to honor your parents.
     What was the context?  Basically, the beginning of Jesus' public ministry.  He just got baptized and had only a few disciples (followers) some of which may have been skeptical.  What was the result of this miraculous creation of wine from water?  Several:  The party continued and the host was not embarrassed to run out of wine.  That's nice.  The miracle also made people believe (V11).  And while that's good, I think it opens a theme about the nature/source of our faith which will keep coming up throughout the Bible.  Why do we believe?  Is it simply because of a magic trick?!  I hope we don't miss the true goodness of God in place of a few magic tricks.  (We will see this theme again, I'm sure of it.)
     Clearing the temple:  This is an interesting 2nd move for Jesus.  I'd say His political career was off to a good start with the dove descending at His baptism and the wine at the wedding.  This next move was clearly not approved by His campaign manager.  Oh wait!!  He's not running for political office.  How quickly we forget God's master plan from John 1.  Now with that context, what is going on here?  The creator of all things sees what's going on in the temple:  The religious leaders of the day have turned the church into a marketplace.  I don't think it would have been so bad if they were selling fashion clothes, but they were selling (and making a fine profit I'm sure) animals for sacrifice!  Making money off of the Old Testament rituals.  Hmmmmm, it's pretty obvious how that made God feel (it's good to know God, how He thinks, what He values, many applications with this knowledge yes, yes in deed).  Did Jesus blow a gasket?  No, no, I don't think so.  If He blew a gasket I think we'd have seen hot sulfur rain down from the sky and not a survivor.  I think God intentionally was making a statement out of His great love for His creation (people).  I think He was saying, "Oh, my dear children, you missed the boat!  It's not about money and sacrifice.  It's about ME and how awesome and perfect I am in every way.  Please don't let sin get the best of you (religious leaders and others alike).  My Fathers house is not a marketplace, but a place of communion and union of Me with my beloved creation (you)."  Yes, I think that's the message He was conveying.  What do you think?
     Application question:  How might you, today, be missing the boat and God's intention for you, your life, how you live, etc. 

John Chapter 3:
     John 3:16  "For God so loved the world that He gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in Him will not perish by have eternal life."  So in verses 1-21 we have a conversation between Jesus and Nicodemus.  I don't fully understand it, nor will I.  And as it says in v8 I can't explain it.  But, this is the center point.  If we get nothing else from the Bible, church, Christianity, etc. let us get this:  belief in Christ is new eternal life, that's all there is to it.  (I will move on here so I don't dilute the simple truth with my words.)
     Verses 22-end:  So many weighty impactful topics in this book!  "He must become greater and greater and I must become less and less."   (verse 30)  This begs the application question, "How am I becoming less and how am I living in the truth that not only is He more, but He is the MORE?"  Our plans, hopes, dreams, accomplishments, worries, etc.  Can we give them up and die to ourselves for His plans, hopes, dreams, accomplishments?  I think we'll find His much better than ours.  He knit each of us in our mothers womb (Psalm 139:13) and has wonderful things for us to accomplish (Eph 2:10).  He's created us in advance so that we can accomplish His goals and bring Him glory and bring His love to everyone we encounter.  I believe this is why Jesus told us to pray "Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as in heaven" in Matthew 6:10.  Let us go forth and do it! 

John Chapter 4 (4/20/11):
     Jesus and the Samarian Woman:  What can we be reminded of by this story?  Jesus is not constrained by any lines of race, gender, socioeconomic status, background, etc.  Jesus reaches to all people regardless of status because ALL people need Jesus (we have fallen short, see Rom 3:23).
     The interaction continues to be interesting:  First Jesus asks for a drink which catches her off guard.  The Jesus reveals who He is and she responds with her desire for Jesus' water.  Then, lovingly, Jesus raises the bar and calls her out for her lifestyle.  She avoids the topic by asking a religious question (How similarly do we avoid the heart of God for religiosity questions?).  In Jesus' answer He gives us some good theology "God is Spirit, so those who worship Him must worship in spirit and in truth" vs. 24.  Checking questions:  Are we filled with His truth about all things?  Is our spirit worshiping him?  What is our spirit?  How does our spirit worship Him?  What does that look like? 
     Transition:  she leaves to go tell everyone and the disciples show up...
     Jesus shares another tid bit with His disciples.  Again, talking in spirit terms, He says that His fuel comes from doing the will of God (see Lords Prayer in Matt 6:10) and then sends them out to harvest (again in spiritual terms).
     Verses 43-end (Jesus heals):  Again, we are caught in the earthly (human sickness) and Jesus is asked to heal.  The father pleads and Jesus says, "Your son will live!"  I think Jesus heals our infirmities so that we can be drawn into His lavish banquet hall.  Healing the lame, blind, lepers is not God's primary aim, but I think He does it as a scent to lure us in to His inner chambers.  Mmmmmm good stuff.  Checking question:  Have you allowed yourself to be lured in to God?  To a place where you need not perform or do anything?  To a place where you are accepted just as you are? 

John Chapter 5:   (4/21/11)
     So what happens in Chapter 5?  Well, according to the section headings Jesus heals a lame man, claims to be the Son of God and then defends it.  Here we go...
     This lame man had been sick for 38 years!  Wow, makes me thankful for my health.  John not only captures the miraculous healing, but the next part of the story is the religious leaders reaction.  Rather than recognize the miracle, they were upset that the healed man was carrying his mat.  I know, seriously, are you kidding?!  How often do we do the same thing?  How often do we forgo on the goodness of God and relationship with Him in place of business, accomplishments, etc.  Checking question:  (and yes there's a theme)  How are we missing the boat today with our worries and priorities (see post on that from 10/28/10)?
     Now on to Jesus' response to the religious leaders:  The religions leaders were ticked that 1) Jesus healed (worked) on the sabbath and 2) the he commanded the healed man to pick up and carry (work) his mat on the sabbath.  Somewhat petty and Jesus could have said, "hey, sorry about that" and things may have died down.  That is NOT what Jesus did.  Instead He said that God is his Father.  Yep, this really ticked them off.  Jesus then goes on explaining Himself in great detail, but they are so blinded and stuck on not believing His claim that they can't even hear what He is saying.  I liken it to the president showing up at my door to deliver my tax return and he felt bad so he tripled the amount on the check.  I might find it so preposterous, that I don't believe it, throw the check away and shut the door on him.  What a mistake that would be!  An even bigger mistake is to miss out on God, grace, eternal life, peace, joy, etc. but yet, these religions leaders were stuck and simply didn't get it!  Checking question:  Are you missing out too or do you get it?  If so, how do you know? 

John Chapter 6:
     To be continued...

Thursday, April 14, 2011

so I've noticed a theme...

Yep, went back and perused a few past posts.  Yep there's a theme.  It's good visibility for me (and way cheaper than therapy)
 Stay tuned and we'll see what Ben learns and how he changes.  (Isn't this fun?!)

Part of my problem...

and I say part, because I'm sure I have more problems...  :)

So it's been a busy week as they usually are.  I think I know what part of my problem is:  I'm in between fully living in the peace filled new life that God has for me and falling back to the "I gotta do it all myself go go go" mentality.  See graphic below...


So the text describes how well we know and understand God's grace, love and acceptance of us as His precious creation (see 1 John 3:1).  The blue bars represent the relative level of stress (or lack of peace) in our lives.  Guess where I am.  Yep, I'm in the big blue bar much of the time which is really switching back and forth between no stress on the right and lots of stress on the left.  Why is it higher than both then?  Good question!  The middle bar is lower because when God's on the back burner, things are OK (or so they seem).  The big bar is big because this is when we know and have tasted the goodness of God (Psalm 34:8) so we are genuinely troubled (and kicking ourselves) when we are not living the peace filled life that we could be.  Genuinely troubling!!

So that's where I am.  Why do I share this?  Why do I post my thoughts and ponderings?  Because I hope that they might be helpful to you on your journey.  Feel free to post a comment. 

Sunday, April 3, 2011

Big Rocks

This video is part of the post below (couldn't get it in there with my lack of technical skills). 

Never enough time

So I got a problem (OK, yes I have several problems, but this blog will address "one" of them)

I feel like I never have enough time in the day!  I love unscheduled time or margin time and even when I have it, on a weekend for example, the day quickly fills up with good things and never enough time to do them all!!!  My cup runneth over.  Tasks include fun things like time with friends, putzing on projects, sitting still and other semi-fun things like getting ready for work, finishing taxes, taking out the trash.

My answers:  Well, first of all I can't do everything, but I am blessed to have many wonderful things, people & tasks to fill my life with purpose.  Secondly, prioritize and make sure none of my "big rocks" are not getting the time they deserve.  Check out the Big Rocks video (next post) if you don't know what I mean by "big rocks".  

One more note on "big rocks":  I need to make sure my big rocks are getting me where I'm going.  Are my big rocks getting me where I want to be as a person in 1 yr, 5 yrs or 10?  I need to make sure to prioritize those big rocks too.

I'm also reminded of God's priorities:  He was/is never in a rush.  He had time to play with the children.  He could have had a successful 20-30 year preaching career, but He personally delivered his simple yet profound message in about 3 years.  We're still studying it intensely and trying to die to self and live a new life with His priorities.  Mmmmm good stuff.  Hopefully you think so too.  :)

Saturday, February 26, 2011

Spiritual Leadership

Hello faithful readers!!  OK, that's probably a little ironic.  Even if I had faithful readers, I post so infrequently, I'm sure they would quickly find better blogs.  Oh well...

Pre-intro:  Before I get into this topic, I gotta tell ya, it's a lovely Saturday.  Light snow outside.  I'm now sitting in front of the fireplace (yes, with a real fire).  I was helping my neighbor get unstuck from the snow.  That was quite the ordeal, but I love outdoor activities.  Fun fun.  Anyhow, now, cozy and in front of the fire.  Happy.

Disclaimer:  I'm not sure who my audience is (or isn't rather) so for the disclaimer I want to warn readers that I like to go to church.  I like thinking about God, pondering life, trying to figure it out, getting frustrated when I don't, etc.  So, don't be surprised to see God, faith and the Bible woven into today's blog post.


Real Intro:  So, what brings this up?  We'll two things really:  #1 I've been talking with some of my good guy friends (Greg, Dan, Gabe, others) on the topic (I don't think anybody has an answer, so I'm going to type below and see if an answer comes out).  #2 My SO has specifically said that she wants me to be the spiritual leader of us / our family.  So, given that, if I want to do it, I'd better figure out what exactly it is I'm gonna do!


Background:  There are several texts from the Bible often quoted on this topic.  Here are a few:  Coll 3:19, Eph 5:25 and 1 Cor 11:3.  This isn't a Bible study, it's Ben rambling on what his thoughts are on the topic, but feel free to check out those references and think and ponder for yourself.


(so let's get started)
I'm going to start from my context:  loving committed relationship between two people both liking church, the Bible and seeking/serving God.  That being the case, what exactly is a spiritual leader supposed to do!?  and how!?


I'll start by quoting and e-mail from my SO:  "I want you to be a "strong hand" and be led by God so that you can lead me/us (family). I would also like to be led by God so don't worry about having to do it all."  (I think this is well put!) but to elaborate, I think a spiritual leader should...


#1) Relentlessly, tirelessly pursue God.  Seek to know and understand who God is, how He works, etc.  Read the Bible, pray, etc.  Know God.  Have an active living intentional relationship with your maker.  Now, with all this knowledge and understanding, live a transformed life (Godliness).
     a) apply #1 first to yourself as an individual
     b) apply #1 with your SO.  Nudge them as an individual to do this for themselves.   
     c) apply #1 to your family which might just be the two of you for starters, but as your family or extended family grows, apply it.  Do #1 with your extended family.

Now that you've mastered #1 (pretend you have) it can be applied to life, to handling the ups and downs, etc.  From a place of #1 you can wisely handle your finances (spending, saving, giving, etc.).  From a place of #1 you can intentionally invest your time (be balanced, invest in fruitful opportunities).  Life may not be easy, but it will be good. :)


#2)  So we don't get stagnant, set stretch goals and nudge yourself, your SO and family to get to the next level.  What is the next level?  I don't know, but you will.  You know where you are, your shortcomings, etc.  Set your mind on God's agenda not your own (See Rom 8:5 and Col 3:1-2).  Now the key to being a spiritual leader is that not only do you need to do all this for yourself first, but also, look out for the best interests of your SO and family.  Bring them with you! 

Here's an example:  It's like planning a family vacation.  The leader checks with people and gets it on the calendar, we're going to Cancun on March19th.  The leader buys tickets.  He makes it happen.  He spreads the word and gets everybody excited to go.  He drives the car to the airport and makes it happen.  Can we as spiritual leaders, be cheer leaders to 1) be excited our self for God 2) share that excitement and energy in a positive way so that it's contagious? 

We plan vacations and make them happen.  Can we do the same thing with something as simple as going to church on Sunday?  Can we?  Pick a church, schedule the time, drive there, actively participate, debrief on the way home and apply God's truth to our life (see #1 above).  I think we can, but it does really start with #1 above. 

That's what I got.  What do you think? 
(I gotta go do more #1 before SO gets home)